Can any one give sujjestions seriously?

My husband is having erectyle dysfunction and very low testasterone, no in the marriage we had been married almost 4 yrs , my husband eventhough he was impotent he hided and married me I married when I was 27 and my husband was 37. he is not having any feelings of an kind, no touch , we dont even sleep togther, I feel hurted a lot when others are living happily in marriage. I never knew that he was impotent he hided from me when he married me later, our marriage is totllay a less of all things. Im very sad, hurted. He dont behave like a normal man. His family treated me very bad since from the beginning of marriage for being good to all of them , he never defends me, he lies all the time, he fights with me all time, Hlp me